We’ve all been through it. You’re looking forward all day to scratching. The day creeps along and by the time you’re home and ready, you just want to sit down, watch tv and relax. You think, “I’ll just chill for a bit, then I’ll get on the kut.” Yet before you know it, thirty minutes turns into an hour, an hour turns into two and now all you want to do is sleep. Or at the very least not get up. You think, “I’ll just scratch tomorrow.” No big deal right? Right! If this was only just an occasional occurrence, but if you look back on all the times this has happened, you’re probably staring right down the barrel of a ton of missed progression and fun.
Guilt is Not Enough
You almost feel guilty knowing how much time you’ve actually cheated yourself out of. It’s frustrating, but you can’t get that time back so what do you do? Perhaps resolve to breaking out of the trap of time wasting. Yet there’s still a part of you that doesn’t really believe you can change so radically. Guilt will only take you so far. While guilt can be a motivator, a lot of times it only deflates us. So we avoid it in order to not feel bad about ourselves instead of actually fixing the problem. It’s unfortunate because approaching the issue like this only sets you up to repeat this cycle of failure.
Why Approach Life With an All or Nothing Mentality?
That question might sound funny considering this article seems very much like exactly that. Let me assure you it’s not the case. There is a time and a place for everything that brings you joy in life provided it doesn’t hurt you or anyone else. What you really have to assess is, are the activities you regularly engage in actually all that enjoyable. Sadly, many times this is not the case. You’re simply just going through the motions of life.
Going back to television as an example, if something you’re watching is adding fuel to the fire and filling you full of inspiration, than that should be considered a wise investment of your time (provided you act on that inspiration of course). On the other hand, if what you’re watching is just idle chatter and not inspiring you to do anything more than just sink further into the couch, then you should probably get up immediately and go accomplish something more worthy of your time.
Start Small or You Won’t Start at All
The most common mistake people make about achievement is that a lot has to be accomplished in a short period of time and if you don’t get a ton of things accomplished in one day, somehow you’ve failed yourself. With that type of thinking it’s no wonder so many people put things off so regularly. The truth is that type of thinking is very small. Most likely all those big things that you feel the need to get done quickly are very minor when put up against the big picture.
Focus on the Big Picture!
You have to think about what you ultimately want to achieve from scratching. From how you’ll sound, how you’ll be perceived, what impact you’ll make, whether you want a professional career, what you’ll get out of that career, etc. Most importantly, you have to really take time to imagine and get close with how achieving all those things will really make you feel. Now ask yourself, what do you need to do to make those things a reality? Now ask yourself, what can I do right now at this very moment to get me closer to my goals? Believe it or not that answer does not have to be something equally big. How could it if you truly created a large scale dreamscape for yourself?
The fact of life we all know too well is nothing is achieved overnight. However, taking steps in the right direction consistently will get you there, even if those steps are baby sized. So take bigger steps when you can, but always take forward steps of any size and I promise you won’t regret it.
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